Seeing your ex with someone new is always going to be weird, no matter how shark-infested your island waters, or how long you’ve left them stranded.Here’s how to deal with the weirdness and get back to the mainland, because you have far more important things to do than worry about who your ex is smooching.
You’re not doing this because you need her in your life or else you die!
For starters, I must make this declaration crystal clear as possible: I do NOT advocate nor entertain such positions as, “How to get my ex back”.
I abhor the thought of guys trying to win their exes back, simply because within such a framework, the one who is actively trying to win back the other, is essentially giving away his or her inherent power to the other party.
The fix: My advice is to block them both the second the status appears. So stop comparing and start blocking, because she might be looking at your profile and thinking the same thoughts, and neither of you deserves to feel inferior.
It’ll keep you from creeping and you’ll move on faster if you don’t have the capability to dig deep into her past. You wonder if your ex’s family and friends are comparing you to this new partner, and then you wonder who’s ‘winning’ This is going to be difficult, especially if you were close to your ex’s family and friends.